Things I have learned in my 20 years of life.

Your perception of everything determines everything in your life. Nothing is fact, it’s your subjective view of everything and everyone around you. Therefore, you are in control and you have the power of judgment. Use it wisely.
Everyone comes to a realization from about 11 years old(middle school years) that they are alone in their feelings and no one understands them. There is some truth to that but it’s mostly biological. Wait it out and continue to form healthy relationships with people.
DON’T TAKE YOURSELF TOO SERIOUSLY.
The world is not out to get you.
This world is pretty screwed up, everything from how it’s run to who runs it. But again, it’s up to you to determine how you wanna take part in it all. Don’t waste it on being angry and resentful because that would be giving in. Be happy instead.
Happiness is a choice.
There’s a lot of people who have live by the motto “I want to change the world.” That purpose is futile. Change yourself instead.
Don’t depend on anyone for your own happiness, self-esteem, self-worth, or value. There will be a point when you realize that is not enough.
The educational institutions we have set up right now are highly flawed. But there is beauty in it if you use that time to really enrich yourself. College can be the best time to get to know yourself and your purpose.
Life get’s more complicated the older you get. There is truth in the cliche saying “don’t try to grow up too fast.”
Generally, if you greet people with a smile, you will get shit done faster.
We are designed to feel like we are the only people on this planet, therefore we are constantly fighting loneliness. Don’t fight it. Accept it and cherish. Learn to love being alone.
Reading is great. Do it often. It’s also therapeutic.
Seeing a psychologist can change your life if you are open to it.
The easy way is not always the best way.
Material things don’t have real value. Whatever value you give them determines the control they have over your life.
Spontaneity is amazing. If someone calls you at 2 AM and suggests going to the beach, go.
People will never cease to surprise you, no matter how well you know them.
Most of the time, people are good or have good intentions.
You will loose a lot of friends over time as you grow, as you should. Try to keep people around you who are honest and want what is best for you. Loyalty and trustworthiness goes a long way.
ESTABLISH A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FAMILY. or at least one that works.
Get the words “boring” or “bored” out of your vocabulary. Boring people get bored.
Learn to love learning.
If you try to be a good person, you will most likely succeed 70% of the time.
Don’t try to change others.
Most relationships are built on insecurities. Figure out what yours are and mindful of them.
Love is a tired concept but look up the “The Triangle of Love”. Analyze it. Apply it.